If you want to start dating amazing women you need to know what you then want.

So today we’ll tell you the top 5 things on their wish list.

1) Sense of Humour

This is probably THE Most important thing. If you can charm them by making them laugh then they’ll love you for it.   Humour is a great distraction and the quickest way to build rapport.

2) Core Values

Everyone has their own unique set of values and things that are important to them. This will vary from person to person but common themes will be wanting children, long or short term relationships, how you deal with money etc.   If these aren’t mutually agreed upon then there won’t be a future for you.  Try and and find out if you are compatible as early as possible.

3) Patience

Life can be tough but don’t let he see you get stressed or angry. Patience is always vital when you are listening to her.  Make her feel special and don’t interrupt, even if you are desperate too.

4) Manliness

A real man takes charge of situations and.  Women are more attracted to a dominant man, so stand up straight and put your shoulders back.  Be respectful to others but make sure you are always assertive too.

5) Romance

All women want a little romance in their lives.  Buy her flowers, surprise her with candlelit dinners. Treat her like a lady and act like a gentleman and you’ll see great results.

Of course, everyone wants different things and some are much more important that others.  But if you work on these five then you’ll be in a great position and set yourself ahead of your competition.

Good luck!

James Preece – The Dating Guru

www.singlesolution.com

Members sometimes ask us why their photos lack clarity.

Photo problems are almost always down to the resolution of the original being too low. As a rough guide, photos must be at least 60k because the enlarged photos in your photo albums are around 60k. If the original is less than 60k, then site has to expand your photo. This basically involves filling in gaps, so the photo will appear grainy and not clear.

Here is a photo of me created by the site, from a tiny thumbnail original of just 9k. Yes, believe it or not, people do upload 9k images.

80x80 thumbnail. Looks OK because its 9k file size is the same as the original.

120x120 as used in the Profile views. Starting to lack clarity because the image is 15k from an original of 9k.

This is the full size image of 300×300 which would appear in the photo Albums. As you can see, it looks pretty bad. The site has had to expand the original 9k image to make it fit. This just creates a grainy and poor quality image.

Full size. Looks bad

Here is the same photo but this time from an original that was 1Mb.

Photo Album image of 60k, 300x300 pixels from 1Mb original

So, our top tips

1. Make sure you upload photos that are at least 60 to 100k. Otherwise your photos are going to look grainy.

2. You main image must be a head shot. Also upload a selection of others. You can have up to 8 images in your album.

3. The max file size is 2Mb. If your photo is over that, please crop it or resize the image using photo editor software. You can also use Outlook to email your photo to yourself. Outlook had an inbuilt photo compressor.

Happy Dating

Paul Ergatoudis

Sometimes you think things are going well in a relationship.

But they tell you they need some space and things are going to quickly.

So how should you react?

First of all, you need to question just why they are getting cold feet.  Perhaps they feel a bit pressured and aren’t sure about you, or maybe you’re being too demanding.

It doesn’t necessarily mean the relationship is over, just that they need more time to think about it.

You should call their bluff a bit and back off for a while.  By giving them the opportunity to miss you, they’ll start thinking about you much more when you aren’t together. Make them value your time together more.

They are probably taking you for granted a bit too much, so let them see their friends and give them the space. Just don’t be too quick to see her when they decide they want to!

Good luck,

James Preece  -   The Dating Guru

www.singlesolution.com