What do your voice reveal about you?

Are you jeopardizing your chances?
I’ve written before  about about how you need to make a great first impression and stand out from crowd. But no matter how hard you try, you could be messing everything up just by saying a few words. If you speak too quickly, too quietly or come across as wimpy then you won’t get past a phone date, yet alone a face to face meeting.

Your voice is an incredibly valuable asset when it comes to dating, so make sure you know how to use it.

The trouble is that the voice you hear and the voice everyone else hears are completely different. This is due to the way your skull makes it resonate. So if you’ve never done so, speak into a microphone and record yourself for a while. It might be a bit of a surprise and a weird experience, but with a bit of practice you can learn what sounds good and what doesn’t.

Who in the public eye do you think has a good voice? Have a listen to them and copy the way they speak. A great voice is one that is slow and clear. Above all it’s never dull so learn to energise and lift your voice so it sounds dynamic.

Remember, the more you practice then the better you’ll get

Good luck!

James Preece – The Dating Guru

www.singlesolution.com

If you want to get noticed you need to be different.

But  does your photo help you stand out for the right reasons?

We always tell you how important having a good photo is when it comes to online dating. But there are still many people who think they know best.

We’ve seen all sorts of weird and wonderful photographs over the years and as the dating experts we knew what works and what doesn’t. Your photos is your calling card and advert that you use to market yourself. If you get it wrong it can be doing you more harm than good.

Please follow our guidelines – no sunglasses, cars, hidden faces. We also don’t allow group shots. Online dating is all about you, so don’t draw attention to anyone else.

Some people like to show themselves with a drink in hand, to give the impression they are a fun, party person. However, this can be interpreted as you having a drinking problem. Not a great asset on a dating site.

THE most important thing is to remember to smile. If you look moody or aren’t looking at the camera then you won’t connect with the viewer. If you look like a happy, positive person then you’ll get much more interest.
Of course, if you don’t event have a photograph then you are wasting your time anyway. If you don’t put one on then nobody will find or contact you, yet alone reply to your emails, Instead they’ll just think you have something to hide.

So go and add some great photos now…just remember what they might be saying about you.

Good luck!
James Preece – The Dating Guru

www.singlesinglesolution.com

Buy One Get One Free During July

As a thank you to our regulars and an incentive to bring in new friends, we have a very special ” Buy One get One free” offer on tickets throughout July.
This offer is for you to bring in new people so at least one of you must be a first timer. If you are a male/female pair then it is valid for all members.

How Do I Get the Offer?
To get this great deal, you both need to be registered on our site and have Nicknames. Buy one ticket as normal, then email us at info@singlesolution.com with the second Nickname.

Terms: Offer only valid on all event tickets purchased before the end of July, subject to availability so not valid if there is a waiting list for the event. Offer is only valid for SingleSolution party events and not for third party events. At least one guest must be a first timer to our events or you are booking in male and female pairs.

Believe it or not, but we are already over halfway into the year.

Have you achieved everything you planned?

We all start the year with big dreams and ambitions. We set ourselves goals – perhaps to find a partner or get more dates.

However, life gets in the way and you get distracted with other things.  Before you know it time has ticked by and you’re still on  your own.  So do you give up, get frustrated and accept the fact you’ll never meet someone? Do you start to think that nothing will ever happen so you stop trying?

Of course not! It’s never too late.

Yesterday has gone but your life starts now.   The first step is to take action and do something to realise your dreams.  Many people wait for things to happen to them rather than going out of their way to make their own luck.  They’ll make excuses as to why they aren’t getting dates rather than take responsibility themselves. Perhaps they are just too busy, too fussy or they’ll magically meet Mr or Ms Right.

The truth is that you need to help fate along a little. If you want to meet someone new, you really can make it happen quickly as soon as you make the choice to do something about it.

Do everything you can to make opportunities for yourself that might be the catalyst to meeting new people.  Accept every invitation and get yourself well and truly out there. Announce to the world that you are a single and ready to meet someone.

If this sounds like you, we want to help.  Why not attend some of our fantastic singles parties or use our online dating site?  There are 1000s of people just like you who could be your ideal match.

Good luck!
James Preece – The Dating Guru

www.singlesolution.com