Our big birthday party is next month

So to celebrate we’ve lined up our best ever party!

Singlesolution.com was first launched in 2002 and we’ve been going from strength to strength ever since.

We like to use this annual event as a way of thanking our loyal members so we spend all profits on making sure it’s out most amazing party ever.

The trouble was, how do we top last year?

We sat and though about what would make our ideal partner, then acted on it.  So this year we are pulling out all the stops and going further than we’ve ever gone before.

The highlight of the event will be the UK’s best Lady Gaga tribute – “Lady G”      She’ll be appearing live on stage with her two backup dancers, singing all your favourite Lady Gaga songs.  This promises to be an amazing all singing, all dancing show that will rock your socks off.

As well as this, we’ll have a drink for you on arrival,  some delicious canapes and other special surprises.

We’re asking everyone to dress up for the party to mark the sense of occasion.

We STRONGLY suggest that you don’t hesitate it booking this party as we know it will sell out quickly.  So please, round up your single friends and book now. We’d love to celebrate this special birthday with you.

Best Wishes,

James and Paul

www.singlesolution.com

July Success Stories and Feedback

We were delighted to present all the latest emails we’ve had in July over our branded sites. It’s fantastic to see so many people are getting together all because of our site. If you have a success story we don’t know about – please get in touch!

“Great and think your site is brilliant!” PS

“I met someone on your dating site, and am no longer single Feed back : GREAT SITE” DP

“Good website that clearly had thought about the user and what they would want to see.” AM

“I met someone on your dating site, and am no longer single. Feed back : Great service!” NT

“I think you guys are doing a great job” AJ

“It is one of the better sites I have used. Very user friendly.” RH

“Great! I went to a few of your events and finally met the man of my dreams! Thanks for your excellent service.” DL

“I enjoyed the site. thank you” CK

“My favourite evening and I’ve done about 7 with you. Yes – a resounding success. Well done. I thought the guy leading the team was excellent, only matched by the northern blonde girl who used to lead at Waterloo Brasserie.” MB

“Relaxed atmosphere and accesible staff and nice to have some refreshments.” SF

“Great site” VB

“Very good” RP

“Very good, clear service and website.” VK

“Whilst I was with you, the services were brilliant.” AM

“The site is a good way to meet and communicate.” AP

“Very good, the staff are extremally friendly at the events!” KB

“Very good events.” RB

“Your services were a great help. Thanks” SP

“Hey I met my wife on this site, my username was deleted just after we met. Two years we met, and we’ve been married 7 weeks now” SB

“Service is great fast and efficient as expected” RD

“Excellent service and regular updates.Thank you” SK

“The site is very well set up” MR

“The events have been wonderful especially the saturday night ones and i have met some very nice people from it” AS

“Never thought i’d meet anyone this way just signed up not expecting much and met someone straight away!”  NA

“The services are very well organised and good fun!” KS

“Appreciate all the help this site has given me…thanks” SP

“Very useful to engage with various types of people.” HK

“User friendly. Great Idea!” PM

“The events are great.”  ML

I often write about being more positive in your dating profile.

But how can you make this easier for yourself?

The power of self-talk is amazing.  If you tell yourself you can do something or tell yourself you can’t, then you are always going to be right.  So the secret is to only tell yourself positive things that will change things for the better.

To help, here are some of my favourite positive phrases.  If you want to feel happier, spend a few minutes each day saying them over and over to yourself.  The more you tell yourself these things then the more likely your brain will make them stick and adjust accordingly:

“The positive thinker sees the invisible, feels the intangible, and achieves the impossible.”

“I choose to be kind to myself.”

“A dream written down with a date becomes a GOAL. A goal broken down into steps becomes a PLAN. A plan backed by ACTION makes your dream come true.”

“It’s better to invest time doing what pleases you, rather than to waste time trying to please everyone else.”

“Every advance in human life begins with an idea in the mind of a single person.”

“I am open to new possibilities.”

“Every great leap forward in life is preceded by a clear decision and a commitment to action.”

“I can figure it out”.

“It is possible, if I am willing to put in the time and effort”

“I make choices and decisions based
on my goals and dreams.”

You could even try to include some similar phrases in to your online dating profile.  They’ll make you come across as a happy, positive person so you’ll automatically get more interest.

Good luck!
James Preece – The Dating Guru

www.singlesolution.com

Are you thinking of giving up on dating?

Are you getting frustrated at your lack of dating success?

Dating can sometimes be tough and seem like a waste of time if you aren’t getting want you want out of it.

Here’s my advice to you: Don’t throw in the towel yet!

Sometimes it might take 10 or 40 dates before you meet Mr or Miss Right, or it might be very next person you go out with. But what if they were number 31 and you gave up at 30? You’d never know how close you might have come to meeting your dream partner.

Here’a an interesting comparison that I’ve been thinking about recently. Thomas Edison tried a 1000 ways to get a light bulb to work and all of them failed. Some didn’t work. Some just flashed and dies and some only lasted a few minutes. He made notes on every case. Eventually, he got one to work long enough that it would make sense to make it for sale to the public..

He didn’t see this as a thousand failures, but as a way of getting closer to the result he wanted. His famous quote is:

“We now know a thousand ways not to build a light bulb.”

There’s a definite lesson to be learned here – for every date that doesn’t work out you are one step closer to the one that will!

Once you are in the right frame of mind for dating and take steps to get what you want then it WILL happen.

Just think what would have happened if Edison hadn’t invented the light bulb. We’d be sitting here in the dark.

So don’t give up just yet. Put some effort into putting an effective plan together, attend some dating events and take full advantage of our online dating site. The love of your life might just be a click away.

Good luck,

James Preece – The Dating Guru

www.singlesolution.com