Sometimes people are scared of relationships because it threatens their independence.

So here’s my advice to make sure this doesn’t become a problem.

Top tips:

1)  Stop calling and texting them every two minutes.   By giving them space they’ll get time to miss you and attraction is often increased by the mind.

2)  You can’t change them, so stop trying.  It’s only in time that they’ll adapt their behaviour to fit in with yours.

3)  Don’t be clingy or needy, but always make them feel they are the most important person in your life.

4)  Show an interest in their own hobbies, life, ambitions etc.   If they feel you are genuine and supportive ‘ll share them with you and won’t be afraid to enjoy them without you.

5)  Keep busy. The more you have on, the more they will treasure the time you spend together.  If they know you are socially popular then she’s subconsciously want to be with you more often.

Good luck!

James Preece – The Dating Guru

www.singlesolution.com

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