There’s a fine line between dating and getting into a serious relationship.

Are you just having fun or are things getting more involved that than.  So how can you tell?

One of my clients asked me a question the other day that got me thinking about this. She asked me:

“I’ve had two dates and we’re getting on really well.  Do I refer to him as my “boyfriend” now?”

I think two dates can be a little too early to tell, but there are certain clues that can help you work it out:

Is either of you still dating other people?
Have you introduced each other to your friends and family?
Are you both making plans together for events in few months time?  (I.e holidays, Christmas etc)
Have you bought each other expensive gifts like watches or jewellery?
Do they ask your opinion regularly?

If you aren’t clear then there’s only one way to find out – ask!   Sit down together and ask where they see things going.  If they can’t look you in the eye or stammer and stutter then get out of there .  However, fingers crossed they’ll tell you that they like you and want to take things to the next level.

Good luck!

James Preece – The Dating Guru
www.singlesolution.com

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