How to use your voice
What do your voice reveal about you?
Are you jeopardizing your chances?
I’ve written beforeĀ about about how you need to make a great first impression and stand out from crowd. But no matter how hard you try, you could be messing everything up just by saying a few words. If you speak too quickly, too quietly or come across as wimpy then you won’t get past a phone date, yet alone a face to face meeting.
Your voice is an incredibly valuable asset when it comes to dating, so make sure you know how to use it.
The trouble is that the voice you hear and the voice everyone else hears are completely different. This is due to the way your skull makes it resonate. So if you’ve never done so, speak into a microphone and record yourself for a while. It might be a bit of a surprise and a weird experience, but with a bit of practice you can learn what sounds good and what doesn’t.
Who in the public eye do you think has a good voice? Have a listen to them and copy the way they speak. A great voice is one that is slow and clear. Above all it’s never dull so learn to energise and lift your voice so it sounds dynamic.
Remember, the more you practice then the better you’ll get
Good luck!
James Preece – The Dating Guru
www.singlesolution.com

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