Making sure you are respectful
Treat people as you’d like to be treated.
We know that, so why doesn’t everyone act like it?
Respect is key when it comes to dating. I often hear grumbles about rude behaviour, so I’ve put a few tips and guidelines together to help.
1) If you get an email from a member and you aren’t interested, send them a quick thank you but no thank you message. There’s no excuse not to as we even provide a few pre written messages that you can send back for free.
2)If someone approaches you at a singles party then it’s polite to talk to them for a few minutes. It’s probably taken them a lot of guts to work up the courage to say hello. You don’t have to speak for long if you aren’t interested. It’s always a good idea to leave them feeling a little happier than before you chatted.
3) Always be on time for a date and don’t keep them waiting around. If you have to be a little late then call them to apologise. A text won’t cut it. Make sure you buy the first drink to apologise and you’ll be forgiven quickly.
4) If you go on a date and don’t want to see them, then let them know in a respectful manner. Thank them for there time and don’t keep them waiting around for ever.
5) If you accept a drink from someone then you must accept that you need to talk to them while you drink it. I’ve seen girls take the drink and the walk off right away which is not acceptable behaviour.
Good luck!
James Preece – The Dating Guru
www.singlesolution.com

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