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Meet the family
There comes a time at the start of every new relationship, where you have to do something that often seems very scary.
You’ve been seeing each other for a little while and all is going well. Then suddenly, out of the blue it hits you. You knew it was coming but weren’t prepared for it to happen so soon.
It’s time to meet the family!
Here are some tips I’ve put together to help you get through this experience. It’s a key moment in every long term relationship but it really doesn’t have to be traumatic.
1) Relax. It’s very likely that they’ll be nervous about meeting you too. They also want to make a good impression! The last thing they want it to embarrass themselves in front of their son or daughter.
2) Treat it like just another date. You’ll need to present a positive image of yourself, so dress well and make sure you are well groomed.
3) Bring a Gift. Whatever you do, don’t turn up empty handed. If it’s a dinner party, bring some wine. If it’s a birthday get a small gift. Mum’s always love flowers and they’ll have never forget you made the effort. Once you win over the Mum then everything gets much easier.
4) Do your Research. Find out who exactly you’ll be meeting and work out some talking points in advance. Try and see if you have any mutual interests, such as sports, television or hobbies. It’s much easier to keep the conversation flowing if you have already planned lots to chat about.
5) Smile. Everyone else will know each other so they will already have their own inside jokes, memories and stories. You won’t follow everything that gets said so just keep smiling and don’t look bored! As long as you look like you are having fun and enjoying yourself then everyone else will be able to relax, allowing you to bond faster.
Happy dating!
James Preece – The Dating Guru
www.singlesolution.com
