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Positive Thinking made easy
I often write about being more positive in your dating profile.
But how can you make this easier for yourself?
The power of self-talk is amazing. If you tell yourself you can do something or tell yourself you can’t, then you are always going to be right. So the secret is to only tell yourself positive things that will change things for the better.
To help, here are some of my favourite positive phrases. If you want to feel happier, spend a few minutes each day saying them over and over to yourself. The more you tell yourself these things then the more likely your brain will make them stick and adjust accordingly:
“The positive thinker sees the invisible, feels the intangible, and achieves the impossible.”
“I choose to be kind to myself.”
“A dream written down with a date becomes a GOAL. A goal broken down into steps becomes a PLAN. A plan backed by ACTION makes your dream come true.”
“It’s better to invest time doing what pleases you, rather than to waste time trying to please everyone else.”
“Every advance in human life begins with an idea in the mind of a single person.”
“I am open to new possibilities.”
“Every great leap forward in life is preceded by a clear decision and a commitment to action.”
“I can figure it out”.
“It is possible, if I am willing to put in the time and effort”
“I make choices and decisions based
on my goals and dreams.”
You could even try to include some similar phrases in to your online dating profile. They’ll make you come across as a happy, positive person so you’ll automatically get more interest.
Good luck!
James Preece – The Dating Guru
www.singlesolution.com
