Here’ s a quick tip for you.

Do you know what the most wonderful sound is?

It’s hearing your own name.  This is the most magical, wonderful thing you can hear as it’s so important to you.   Everyone wants to hear it as it instantly makes you feel comfortable and important.

If you want to pass these great feelings on to another person then use their name. Make sure you drop this in the conversation every now and again.  Not all the time or you’ll sound like a nutcase or as if you are trying to manipulate them.  Just sprinkle it in where it matters.

You can do this in non dating capacities too.  If you get a telephone call from a stranger, write down their name on a notepad.   If you meet someone for the first time then do everything you can to remember who they are.  You’ll build rapport quicker and make them feel good. They’ll associate you with these good feelings too.

It’s especially powerful if you want to introduce them to someone else.  Imagine how you would feel if you met someone at a party and then an hour later they come up to you and introduce you to a third person.  When they do, they refer to you by name.  Can you think how flattered you would be?

If you had a bad memory, then try to make a mental connection with their name as soon as you can.  For example, “James” could be “James Bond”, so imagine them in a tuxedo and carrying a gun.   Or maybe you have an Uncle James who they remind you of.  The more you do it the better you’ll get.

Happy Dating,
James Preece – The Dating Guru

www.singlesolution.com

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