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So what do you do?
I was at a party this weekend and it gave me a idea for this week’s blog. When you meet someone they usually ask “So what do you do?”
This is the second most commonly asked “speed dating question.” The first is your name.
Now, many people see this as incredibly boring, especially after the fifth or sixth time! However, the big secret is that this is actually the very BEST question you can ask.
Don’t just state that you work in IT, or talk about how boring your life is. Most importantly, don’t give a one word answer.
Instead, use it as an opportunity to really sell yourself. Think about how you can impress the person you are talking to and what you can do to help others. For example, I tell people that I “Bring people together and help them find love.”
If you are an estate agent you might say “I help people moving into a new area to find a new home.” Or a teacher might say ” I help children get the best start in life.” This brings your job to life and makes it a talking point.
If you really can’t put a positive spin on your career then think about various interesting life experiences you have had and use the chance to talk about them instead.
Good luck!
James Preece – The Dating Guru
www.singlesolution.com
