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So you want to be an Alpha Male?
In today’s blog I’m be talking about the enigma of the Alpha Male.
So what IS an Alpha Male?
This term is usually used to refer to a man who is powerful or in a high social position
In nature, attraction between mates is determined by the survival of the fittest philosophy. The mate that is chosen is the one that is most likely to breed strong, healthy offspring. In many animal societies the alpha male will be the only male in the pack, and it will be his job to impregnate the females in order for the species to survive.
So in dating, the alpha tends to be the one who gets all the women!
However, contrary to popular belief, this isn’t through being rude, arrogant, macho or cocky. Instead, here are the five best ways you can learn to become and Alpha Male:
1) Be Confident. This is the number quality that a woman will look for in a man so it’s the key thing all Alpha Men possess. Be relaxed and comfortable in your surroundings. It always help to dress up whenever you go out as it gives the impression you are high status and sure of yourself.
2) Be Masculine. Show off your muscles, achievements, or skills to get people to think of you as dominant. Know who you are and never be afraid to express your true personality. An Alpha man Doesn’t fear doesnt’ care what other think of him or of being judged.
3) Take the lead. As an Alpha Male, you need to take control. In fact, most women expect it as they they want to be looked after. For example, don’t ask where they would like to go on a date – but surprise them instead.
4) Know what you are worth. Respect yourself. you value yourself as equal to or above everyone else including any girl you approach. You need women to realise that you have a lot more to offer than other men and they need to be the ones to impress you.
5) Don’t be too serious. As always, dating is about fun. You need to demonstrate that you have a good, almost cheeky sense of humour.
If you’d like to know more about becoming an Alpha Male, I recommend this fantastic guide:
Good luck!
James Preece – The Dating Guru
www.singlesolution.com
August 24th, 2010 at 1:54 pm
I’m far from convinced all women are looking for an ‘alpha male’…. But there’s probably some truth in the message about the qualities of confidence, self-respect etc.
The ‘job spec’ reads like James Bond… except the muscles bit which sounds more like He-Man! Plus where does this leave the alpha women who prefer the softies?
Not sure about the overall message society gives out about having to be alpha – like all women having to be skinny! Rather than the ‘skinny’ or ‘alpha’ message, surely ‘be true to yourself’ should stand you in better stead…?