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Who is watching you?
In today’s blog I’m going to teach you a very important lesson for when you are out and about.
I was hosting a singles party a short while ago and one of my clients had bought a ticket. He’d got his eyes on a rather lovely young lady who he was desperate to talk to. I thought they might make a great match so I encouraged him to go and say hello.
The problem was, she was constantly surrounded by men. Not her fault, of course, but this made it near impossible for him to step in. Such a moment did present itself after a while, but before he could so much as move, another chap swooped in for her attention.
Then, as we stood discussing this, we watched her write down her number and give it to the man she was with. She didn’t know it, but she’d instantly blown her chance with anyone else.
Why? Well people don’t like competition. “I don’t want to date someone who hands out her number to everyone she meets”, said my client. She might have given her number of many other reasons than a dating interest, but by then it was too late.
Think about how you act when you decide you fancy someone. You’ll watch them from afar, sussing them out and deciding whether to go over and say something. They might not be aware, but you’ll notice everything they do – whether it’s laughing, buying a drink, going to the loo or picking their nose! Before you know it, you’ve persuaded yourself NOT to approach them after all.
Always keep in mind that someone might be watching, so always be conscious of what you are doing. Look your best or you might be ruining your chances without ever knowing it.
Good luck!
James Preece – The Dating Guru
www.singlesolution.com
