Why am I always single?
It’s that annoying time of year for singles – Wedding season.
Everyone seems to be paired off except for you.
You can really feel the pressure on you as you watch more and more of your friends settle down. But you are always the one left on your own or dating unsuitable people.
It’s my firm belief that there is someone for everyone out there. In fact, every day I hear about “long term” singletons finally getting married to the right person. I’m even about to do it myself.
I can tell you exactly who WON’T find love. That’s the people who never bother to sign up for a dating site like Singlesolution.com or attend a singles parties. They are the ones sat at home feeling sorry for themselves but taking now action to improve things. If you don’t put yourself out there then how can you seriously expect to meet anyone?
You must make the most of every opportunity and be ready to take them head on.
Just remember to be patient and optimistic. It will happen for you but need to make sure you are doing everything possible to help it along the way!
Do think about what you like in people and don’t get caught up with rules or a long check list. Don’t rule people out because of a few small negative points. Try to find people with whom, you can engage in a shared experience, activity or hobby that will help you connect on a deeper level. This is important because you have to bond – you are unlikely to find a “ready made” match.
If you every need any help or enouragement then we are always here.
James Preece – The Dating Guru