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Your Dating Shopping List
If you want to get results in anything you need to know exactly what you want.
After all, if you don’t know what you want how will you know when you’ve got it?
So you need to make yourself a dating “shopping list.” If you want to make a cake or cook a meal you wouldn’t just stumble around the supermarket guessing at ingredients.
Instead, you’d write down everything you might want and the exact quantities too. It’s the same when it comes to dating.
Who exactly do you want to meet? What’s important to you? What are the deal breakers and what could you put up with?
It’s fine to be optimistic but you need to be realistic too. The longer the list then the longer it will take to meet someone who ticks all the boxes. Therefore you must be careful that you only write down the really really important things that will matter in a relationship. Don’t worry too much about height, weight, age etc but instead focus on the important issues like fidelity, love and truthfulness. You need to be emotionally compatible.
Once you’ve made your list, put it somewhere that you look often. Perhaps on a mirror or on a post-it note on your computer monitor. That’s why you’ll subconsciously keep looking at it and you’ll ready yourself for when meet new people.
Give it a go and let me know what happens.
Good luck!
James Preece – The Dating Guru
www.singlesolution.com
